Why Do Some Escorts Not List/Have Phone Numbers?
Well, I can't speak for others...but i can shed some light as to why i do not operate with a phone number/phone app/texting (ugh) or direct line of contact.
Call me "Old-School" but i am realizing that "Old School" style of high end escorting of the past had many redeeming qualities in both the safety for the gentleman, safety for the provider and well-being and peace for the lady. (i.e.: less frustration)
When i first started there was a great risk in listing a phone number in the way of LE targeting.
*Easiest and less time consuming for them to simply run down a phone list...rather than taking the extra care and time in filling out screening forms/proper introductions through email etc (as that allowed a companion to avoid incriminating questions and avoid being in direct line with those meaning to entrap her)
As time went on, it also allowed a buffer between "real life" (career, family, friends and personal time) and the "secret life". I do not have to deal with:
* "u avail?" texts at all hours of the night/day.
* Undesirables/stalker types simply changing their phone numbers to "speak direct" to me and gather location information.
* Puts an extra layer between myself and those meaning harm or entrapment
* Allows me to screen PRIOR to engaging in any information exchange with a stranger which is critical.
* Allows me to work my vanilla career uninterrupted and engage in life and segment when i want to engage in my "fun secret job"
* Is a deterrent towards the undesirables (pimp-y types, emotional types, "any port in a storm" mongers)
* EMAIL is MORE secure away from a client's SO as many gents do not have their phones "locked down" and that's often the 1st place a suspecting SO will look. I have NEVER had communication from a jealous SO due to an email only protocol. It HELPS YOU- the potential client also.
MISCOMMUNICATION Risk:
You are a sweet guy, leave a nice message outlining all- and even outline "call me back" but is nervous and doesn't mention WHEN (or I'm at vanilla job when you are free to speak) ..then it is a risk to you for me to call/text just whenever...or it leaves me guessing- and then you think i am "flaky" or "unresponsive" ....see? there's Way too many Variables to mess up on...
* Peace of MIND. Making this more enjoyable to me. One of the biggest complaints i hear from companions is the frustration of lack of gentlemanly communication through text, the threats, the inappropriate questions.... by using email (and i still do get occasional "u avail?" but SO MUCH LESS....
It adds to the pleasure of what i do by eliminating the knuckleheads (plus much of the risk factors mentioned above) without frustration on my end.
It makes me a happier escort, it has allowed for my longevity in this and avoid "becoming jaded" and kept both myself and my gentleman friends secure in regards to discretion.
I've experimented a couple of times with many different methods as I have a voice of sugar and am quite articulate and sometimes hope for someone to hear me, have a great comfort with my voice and move forward in the booking process due to that- but both ended in more than 200 texts plus hangups with the "u avail?" and dick pic crowd or leaving an incomplete anonymous message and ZERO bookings and inability to call back as i was at my vanilla career. = NO GO for me.
WHAT? NOT Comfortable booking with a companion without speaking to her?
I never said that. I SPEAK via phone to ALL suitors prior to the arranged date.
But..it's after my discreet screening and a date set up - so that i know you are serious , sincere and sweet... I assure you- my voice at that point is often an enticement to our next step forward of spending time in person....
*Fondly and with Anticipation....*
Mel
www.escortingmelinda.com
